Comments on: Giving Up?

By: Chic and Charming

Chic and Charming — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:05:43 +0000

I am so sorry that you are having to go through such a rough situation. You should not feel guilty and that girl had no right to tell you what you should do with Molly, she is not in your situation. I feel for you and wish I could give you a big hug.

By: Julie

Julie — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 23:03:45 +0000

Hello.. you are NOT being selfish. You are doing what is best for both you.

I know that you’ve heard this a lot this weekend but if you need anything let me know. I know I am far away, but I care

By: Playful Professional

Playful Professional — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 17:21:11 +0000

Don’t consider it giving up… just think that you gave her a good foster home and prepared her for the next journey in her life. You’re right that if you can’t take care of her, she deserves somewhere else. But it’s still sad. Sorry.

By: steph

steph — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 15:51:01 +0000

Hi,

I’ve been a silent reader all along ( greetings from Singapore, by the way) but decided to finally comment as it’s a topic that I can relate to.

Just 2 mths back, my boyfriend found an abandoned puppy and out of fear that the SPCA might put him to sleep, we thus decided to foster him for a period of time. At the same time, we thought of posting ads on forums/internet to search for suitable families to adopt him. Alas, we soon fell heads over heels over him and were very tempted to adopt him. However, there were some factors that deter us. Likewise, neither of us were working at that time ( i just graduated from uni) so finances were tight. Moreover, it was the first time that we’re having a puppy so Archie pretty much drove us nuts every day with his constant chewing, nipping, barking, etc. In fact, we ended up having more arguments because of the puppy.

There were many times whereby I felt like giving up and finding him an experienced home who can provide him with more guidance. However, the bond and love we have for Archie was just too powerful and so, we stay determined and now 2 mths later, he’s really affectionate and well-behaved at home ( it’s a different story when he’s outdoors though). We can’t imagine life without Archie now, he’s our boy and faithful companion.

Sorry to have kept ranting on. In any case, I just want you to know that I know it’s tough to have to make a decision like this. As much as it hurts dog owners to have to give up on their pets, sometimes we know that it’s better for the dog. I hope things work out well for you and Molly and that she gets adopted into a loving home soon. And remember, you guys made her feel what’s love at the beginning

By: LiLu

LiLu — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 12:09:15 +0000

Oh, hon, I am so sorry. But you have given her a GREAT start- she should be easy to find a loving home that can give her that little bit more she needs!

(And maybe if you WERE crying at the adoption event, everyone would realize how amazing she is and want to snatch her up…)

Best of luck. You didn’t fail… you gave her an amazing beginning.

By: ashley

ashley — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 16:20:20 +0000

Do not think of this as a failure at all, you have so much going on in your life that was unexpected and you did the best for her–you gave her a good home and love and attention. And instead of making things possibly harder on her, as for on yourself, you’re giving her a chance to go to another good home that can take care of her the way she needs to be taken care of.

It is so heartbreaking though to let go of a loved pet, I know how you feel. Stay strong and know that she’ll go to a home that will love her just as much as you do.

By: E.P.

E.P. — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 14:50:35 +0000

I’m so sorry that y’all are in this situation. Instead of looking at it as failing her, I think you should focus on the fact that you gave her a good, loving home, you took her to the vet and helped make her healthy, happy pup.

I know it’s not an easy thing to do, but it will be OK. And y’all have started Molly on a fantastic path that will only get better when she’s adopted.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 01:43:19 +0000

Oh honey, I’m so sorry! I know that is SO heartbreaking. You guys tried your best given the circumstances. Every dog is different, and she just didn’t work out. She’s adorable and will find a good home.

By: Akirah

Akirah — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 18:23:35 +0000

It’s okay! It sounds like you’ve done all you can. If there’s a better place that fits her better, than you can’t feel guilty about trying to provide that. In the end, you guys have to do what’s best for you, so don’t get too hard on yourself, okay?

By: Brandilicious

Brandilicious — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:45:55 +0000

I can’t imagine how heartbreaking this must be for you. Admittedly, my first instinct was the same as your facebook commenter. But after thinking of it some more I realized that Molly deserves to find a home that suits her best.

Good luck with everything.