It’s not a secret that I was unhappy in my most recent job. I felt largely that I was unchallenged, unmotivated and not really…going anywhere. There was, actually, no where to go.
So it was kind of a shock to me today at 5pm when my boss brought me into his office and told me they were restructuring, or reorganizing or whatever it was that he said after he said “We’re going to have to let you go.”
Ufff. Six months from my wedding day?!
Though typical, since I was having a no good, very bad day anyhow. Two paper cuts, two trips to get my boss’s lunch, and all around crankiness thanks to a lack of sleep.
It really is, as my two closest coworkers said to me, a blessing in disguise.
I was insanely unhappy. So much so that it was affecting my life outside of work – there was the ocassional day that I would cry before getting out of bed. There were days when I would want to curl up and cry under my desk. Days that I had such rage instilled in me.
No more.
I don’t have to wake up tomorrow. I can focus on freelancing, I can focus on our web design company. I can focus on other things like marathon training. Training the new pup. Reading. Etc…etc…
But still, it’s a little unnerving. Granted that ridiculously expensive stimulus package (that I might not have been a fan of previously) did just extend unemployment benefits, and the length of time that they’re available, so I might still have some faith in my party yet. And I did get like…a month’s severance (two weeks and my vacation time) so we have a wee bit of a cushion and I’m still waiting to hear about two jobs that I recently interviewed for. All is not lost.
Sooo….this isn’t such a bad thing after all. I can certainly make the best of a bad situation. There is a silver lining here. I know this.
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Of course there’s a silver lining…and you are so going to rock it.
awww so sorry to hear this, but if you were that unhappy- it probably is better. my dad just got laid off this week and although it isn’t permanent, it probably will be
at least you’re waiting to hear back from some other positions and have some prospects 
hang in there
ps- i usually read your posts thru Reader, so i haven’t seen this- but your layout is SUPER CUTE. love it.
Oh honey I’m sorry to hear about this. But seriously, it does sound like a blessing in disguise.
Let me know if there’s anything you need!!
Good for you not being down, and for looking it as a situation that has a silver lining. I’m not that brave nor am I that tough.
This happened to a friend of mine and he was super upset and it actually turned out to be the best thing, becuase in less than 2 weeks he got a more challenging career and it pays better… so I guess what I’m trying to say is that everything happens for a reason and it’ll all work out! Good LUCK!
It sounds like you are doing what’s right – focusing not on the door that is closing, but rather on the doors that may be opening up.
A book I strongly suggest: The Success Principles, by Jack Canfield. I think it is life-changing.
Good for you for seeing the positive side to the whole situation!
Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m glad you’re being positive and looking at alternatives for right now. Stay strong.
Wow…I’m so sorry. The silver lining is definitely there and it will come out when you least expect it. I know that things will get better in an amazing way. Good luck, I’ll be thinking good thoughts for you!
Wow, that’s how I felt when I got laid off from my job last year. It was such a horrible job that the overwhelming emotion was relief.
And a year later, I’m doing fine. You will be fine too.
Wow, that’s a bummer. But it sounds like you won’t miss it!
I say we torch the place! Felonies are fun.
There’s so totally a silver lining, and there are great things in store for you … I just know it.
I’m going to miss our ghetto CC lunches, but I’m so happy you’re out of that hellhole. Have faith in the future. I think it’s going to be a very bright one.
Even though it killed me to hear you on the phone earlier today, part of me is really glad you’re not around those toxic people anymore. Because it was just… you could see the weight you were practically physically carrying on your shoulders because you were working there.
As cliche as it is, everything happens for a reason.
You’re resilient. You’ll be okay. In the meantime, you have dope friends to keep your chin up and drink with you. <3333
This truly is a blessing in disguise! Don’t stress… And be happy to have the time off.
I’m so sorry. I’m sending lots of good wishes your way!
being laid off does blow… at the time. it’s definitely a sign of better things to come though. this economy makes it a scary time to face the unknown but it’ll all work out… it always does.
and it sounds like you’re already headed in a better direction.
Oh no. Ok, your Twitter comments make a lot of sense now (I’m totally behind on my blog reader – ooops). I know it’s kind of a mixed thing – not being happy in your job but then not really wanting to see it go away, right?
Very cool you’ll have time to do some freelancing and such. Is that what you’re hoping to do permanently going forward? Sending lots of positive thoughts. It sounds like you’re definitely due something good.
Awww, this totally sucks. I’m glad you’re trying to look at the positives though, and you’ve already started interviewing, so that’s good!
Haha, Liz’s comment about dope friends made me laugh
Everyone already said the inspiring and uplifting things I was thinking…so I won’t repeat them, I will just continue to send happy thoughts and fun sounding jobs your way!
xoxo
I haven’t seen your layout in awhile, and it is so cute!
It sounds like you have a great attitude about your job loss!
sorry you were laid off, but like you said, it sounds like it’s a blessing in disguise. good luck!
I think it’s definitely very, very true that this kind of change is a blessing in disguise — I know that you hated your job and I’m positive you’ll find something better for the next one.
((hugs))
You’re so right – everything happens for a reason!
Lots of warm wishes and thoughts heading your way. Being away from the cruddy feelings of that toxic place will allow you to be more yourself. Have a more positive outlook. And find a great solution.
Best of luck.
I would say “I’m so sorry”, but the fact is, I think this will be good for you. I think this will be great for you. Not necessarily the “stress and craziness of finding a new job” part, cuz that will suck. But overall, I think this is a blessing in (a thinly veiled) disguise.
xox
So sorry Heidi! You definitely have the right attitude though
Now you can find work that you enjoy!
At least you don’t have to waste your energy/brain power on a place you didn’t want to be in the first place.
Good Luck!
I’m sorry you’re going through a rough time, but I’m so happy you’re able to get out of the miserable position you seemed to be in. I said the same thing to one of my best friends who went through this in September and now she’s much happier. I know the same will be true for you soon too!
Ugh, I’m sorry. But it sounds like it will end up working out for the best for you.
Oh no! I’m sorry to hear this….but glad that you are trying to see the good in the situation.
so much silver lining that I don’t even see a cloud!
oh no! i was just catching up on all the blogs since getting back from vaca (and yours was the first) what terrible news. I’m very sorry, Heidi. I hope the lead I sent you works out or something else great pops up real soon. hang in there
I think they’re right, it is a bit of a blessing in disguise. I hope it does give you a chance to find something you love.
I’ve been so busy I haven’t been able to think about BlogHer lately, but let’s talk soon.
Best of luck to you and the silver lining you find!