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		<title>By: Monday Blarftacularness &#171; Life in Pink</title>
		<link>http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/08/12/what-a-way-to-start-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4406</link>
		<dc:creator>Monday Blarftacularness &#171; Life in Pink</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 21:23:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I got a lovely comment on this post that says: &#8221; Well.  You either want sympathy or you want constructive [...]</description>
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		<title>By: tommi</title>
		<link>http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/08/12/what-a-way-to-start-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4391</link>
		<dc:creator>tommi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 18:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AND --

&quot;WHO SENDS EMAILS THAT EARLY!?!?!  HONESTLY!&quot;

Um... the people who have the kinds of jobs you&#039;d like to have.

Secretaries and receptionists start work at 9:00;  people with power and responsibility have already been at work for hours by then.

You certainly aren&#039;t going to get ahead if you think there is something wrong with sending work-related emails at 7:51 in the morning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AND &#8211;</p>
<p>&#8220;WHO SENDS EMAILS THAT EARLY!?!?!  HONESTLY!&#8221;</p>
<p>Um&#8230; the people who have the kinds of jobs you&#8217;d like to have.</p>
<p>Secretaries and receptionists start work at 9:00;  people with power and responsibility have already been at work for hours by then.</p>
<p>You certainly aren&#8217;t going to get ahead if you think there is something wrong with sending work-related emails at 7:51 in the morning.</p>
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		<title>By: tommi</title>
		<link>http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/08/12/what-a-way-to-start-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4392</link>
		<dc:creator>tommi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 18:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well.  You either want sympathy or you want constructive advice.

If your blog is any indication of your writing skills, DO have someone go over your  application materials to check for grammar at the very least.  You make quite a few errors, and while I realize that blogging is a bit more informal than applying for jobs (although an argument could be made that good writing is good writing at all times) -- one should know the proper usage of &quot;it&#039;s&quot; vs &quot;its.&quot;   In a competitive job market, sloppy errors like that scream, &quot;I&#039;m not competent!&quot;

Perhaps your lack of focus is coming through.  You yourself admit you don&#039;t know what you want to be when you grow up.   Once you graduate from college and enter the &quot;real&quot; employment market,  you get hired to work, not to &quot;find yourself.&quot;   What employer wants to give a good position with responsibility, growth potential, and a generous salary to someone who might flit off to something else in six months?   It just isn&#039;t a very good investment.

Your seeming sense of privilege might also be communicating itself to potential employers.  People do start at the bottom and do work their way up; complaining and whining about how superior you are to the job you&#039;ve taken and your co-workers is not a way to get ahead.  No boss wants that kind of stress in the office.

One hopes your potential employers aren&#039;t aware of this blog.  It can&#039;t help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well.  You either want sympathy or you want constructive advice.</p>
<p>If your blog is any indication of your writing skills, DO have someone go over your  application materials to check for grammar at the very least.  You make quite a few errors, and while I realize that blogging is a bit more informal than applying for jobs (although an argument could be made that good writing is good writing at all times) &#8212; one should know the proper usage of &#8220;it&#8217;s&#8221; vs &#8220;its.&#8221;   In a competitive job market, sloppy errors like that scream, &#8220;I&#8217;m not competent!&#8221;</p>
<p>Perhaps your lack of focus is coming through.  You yourself admit you don&#8217;t know what you want to be when you grow up.   Once you graduate from college and enter the &#8220;real&#8221; employment market,  you get hired to work, not to &#8220;find yourself.&#8221;   What employer wants to give a good position with responsibility, growth potential, and a generous salary to someone who might flit off to something else in six months?   It just isn&#8217;t a very good investment.</p>
<p>Your seeming sense of privilege might also be communicating itself to potential employers.  People do start at the bottom and do work their way up; complaining and whining about how superior you are to the job you&#8217;ve taken and your co-workers is not a way to get ahead.  No boss wants that kind of stress in the office.</p>
<p>One hopes your potential employers aren&#8217;t aware of this blog.  It can&#8217;t help.</p>
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		<title>By: tipptalk</title>
		<link>http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/08/12/what-a-way-to-start-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4405</link>
		<dc:creator>tipptalk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ugh I am so sorry and I have been there, many times!

Hugs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ugh I am so sorry and I have been there, many times!</p>
<p>Hugs.</p>
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		<title>By: Zandria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zandria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:19:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That seriously sucks.  But you know what that means?  It wasn&#039;t the job for you.  It&#039;s not where you were supposed to be.  You&#039;ll find something better.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That seriously sucks.  But you know what that means?  It wasn&#8217;t the job for you.  It&#8217;s not where you were supposed to be.  You&#8217;ll find something better.  <img src='http://www.legallyheidi.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Playful Professional</title>
		<link>http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/08/12/what-a-way-to-start-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4403</link>
		<dc:creator>Playful Professional</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:10:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My only piece of advice is to almost forget that you&#039;re in an interview and just be personable. They have already decided whether or not you&#039;re qualified, now they just want to see who they along with the best. I think that&#039;s one of the only reasons I have lucked into jobs, because I&#039;m definitely not qualified. But I get along with most people and just laugh at myself a lot. DC does suck for the job search though. You aren&#039;t looking for a job in QA are you? My company asked me if I have any friends looking. Ha. Hope you find something!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My only piece of advice is to almost forget that you&#8217;re in an interview and just be personable. They have already decided whether or not you&#8217;re qualified, now they just want to see who they along with the best. I think that&#8217;s one of the only reasons I have lucked into jobs, because I&#8217;m definitely not qualified. But I get along with most people and just laugh at myself a lot. DC does suck for the job search though. You aren&#8217;t looking for a job in QA are you? My company asked me if I have any friends looking. Ha. Hope you find something!</p>
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		<title>By: magda</title>
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		<dc:creator>magda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Luck Heidi!  I totally hate these e-mails, and I&#039;m no stranger to them at all.  It hurts especially badly when you KNOW you&#039;re qualified and you KNOW you&#039;d kick ass.  I don&#039;t have much advice, but hang in there!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Luck Heidi!  I totally hate these e-mails, and I&#8217;m no stranger to them at all.  It hurts especially badly when you KNOW you&#8217;re qualified and you KNOW you&#8217;d kick ass.  I don&#8217;t have much advice, but hang in there!</p>
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		<title>By: notsojenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>notsojenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 22:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i know what you&#039;re talking about.  things are especially tough right now in the job market.  in the past whenever i saw a job i wanted i applied, was subsequently interviewed and got the job.  every. single. time.  until last year... i put out a ton of resumes.  heard back from a few and interviewed for some of those.  only got a couple of offers.  it was the first time in my life that i&#039;d been rejected from a potential job and it was awful.  i didn&#039;t understand.  i mean my resume even impresses me these days.  but you know when i look back on it i realize that the type of jobs i&#039;m applying for are different, they&#039;re much higher level than ever before (which makes sense).  but right now it&#039;s even worse.  i&#039;ve put out a ton of resumes for all sorts of jobs this year... and have only heard back from 1.  1!  it&#039;s amazing.  and every time i talk to anyone i know in HR they&#039;re talking about how they&#039;re flooded with applicants.  it&#039;s a shitty time to be looking for a job right now.
i hope it gets better for you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i know what you&#8217;re talking about.  things are especially tough right now in the job market.  in the past whenever i saw a job i wanted i applied, was subsequently interviewed and got the job.  every. single. time.  until last year&#8230; i put out a ton of resumes.  heard back from a few and interviewed for some of those.  only got a couple of offers.  it was the first time in my life that i&#8217;d been rejected from a potential job and it was awful.  i didn&#8217;t understand.  i mean my resume even impresses me these days.  but you know when i look back on it i realize that the type of jobs i&#8217;m applying for are different, they&#8217;re much higher level than ever before (which makes sense).  but right now it&#8217;s even worse.  i&#8217;ve put out a ton of resumes for all sorts of jobs this year&#8230; and have only heard back from 1.  1!  it&#8217;s amazing.  and every time i talk to anyone i know in HR they&#8217;re talking about how they&#8217;re flooded with applicants.  it&#8217;s a shitty time to be looking for a job right now.<br />
i hope it gets better for you!</p>
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		<title>By: LJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>LJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sorry to hear that. Very frustrating indeed. Hang in there - I &#039;m sure the right thing will come along if you&#039;re patient enough (not that I&#039;m good at patience either, but I do believe there&#039;s truth in the saying).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear that. Very frustrating indeed. Hang in there &#8211; I &#8216;m sure the right thing will come along if you&#8217;re patient enough (not that I&#8217;m good at patience either, but I do believe there&#8217;s truth in the saying).</p>
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		<title>By: AshleyD</title>
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		<dc:creator>AshleyD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How frustrating! I don&#039;t know anything about the DC job market, but it sounds exhausting. Hopefully something much better will come along and you will love it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How frustrating! I don&#8217;t know anything about the DC job market, but it sounds exhausting. Hopefully something much better will come along and you will love it!</p>
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