Last night, before bed in my fiance’s childhood bedroom, I was watching Sex and the City old skool…season 1 or 2. Lately, I have been beyond happy with fiance and with us…there’s always things to be cleaned up and all that jazz….
But a quote that I have LOVED for a long time struck a cord with me at the end of the episode.
“You see, after a while you just want to be with the one who makes you laugh.” – Mr.Big
It’s so true. I realize all the time how lucky I am that fiance makes me laugh. He makes me smile, he cheers me up. He tells me he loves me before we fall asleep and as soon as we wake up. He kisses me as soon as I get home from work and he brings me dinner when I work late and meets me to walk me home.
But most importantly? He makes me laugh. Everyday.
When you find someone who can do that? Someone who will love you unconditionally and make you laugh when you need it most? That’s real kids. That. Is real love. And for a long time it took me to find it. I searched and searched and hoped and prayed for something real like this. And while i knew it some time ago, I think hearing the quote and reminded of that Sex and the City relationship wisdom that 20 something ladies like myself live by, reminded me and I looked at the big picture and saw what I have in front of me.
I am one lucky gal. 
And me?? I can’t wait to get married.
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I love that you’re so happy
The laughing is WAY important!
You are a very lucky woman and he is a lucky man to be with someone that appreciates what she has. Keep laughing and keep loving each other!
I need to find one of these mythical men like the one you’ve described… Where to look… Jewel? Target?
that is one of my fave satc quotes ever
Laughing is by far the most important part of a relationship. That and sex. And eating ice cream while watching Arrested Development.