Comments on: It’s not you…oh wait…yes it is http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/ I live, I laugh, I love and I wear a lot of pink Fri, 10 Feb 2012 18:36:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Laurel http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-2611 Laurel Fri, 11 Apr 2008 18:40:04 +0000 http://legallyheidi.wordpress.com/?p=515#comment-2611 It's so important to get rid of the toxic friends. A couple years ago, I cut out a friend who I had known since high school. She had never been a really great or reliable friend, but, you know, she was around. It wasn't pretty, but it was SUCH a relief. It’s so important to get rid of the toxic friends. A couple years ago, I cut out a friend who I had known since high school. She had never been a really great or reliable friend, but, you know, she was around. It wasn’t pretty, but it was SUCH a relief.

]]> By: Britni http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-2610 Britni Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:29:35 +0000 http://legallyheidi.wordpress.com/?p=515#comment-2610 It really is amazing how there are some people that you thought were friends that turn out to be, well who knows but definitely not friends. I have probably five friends that I know will always be there through everything and anything. It's like you said, you can not see each other forever and just sit down and pick up right where you left out. That's what a real friend is to me. It really is amazing how there are some people that you thought were friends that turn out to be, well who knows but definitely not friends. I have probably five friends that I know will always be there through everything and anything. It’s like you said, you can not see each other forever and just sit down and pick up right where you left out. That’s what a real friend is to me.

]]> By: Plain Jane http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-2609 Plain Jane Fri, 11 Apr 2008 03:03:45 +0000 http://legallyheidi.wordpress.com/?p=515#comment-2609 Even though we've gone through some rough times, I hope you count me among your true friends. I know I still have some repairing to do, but you were there for me when a lot of people weren't, and I hope to continue to be a good friend and return the favor. You're one of the most sincere people I've ever met. Even though we’ve gone through some rough times, I hope you count me among your true friends. I know I still have some repairing to do, but you were there for me when a lot of people weren’t, and I hope to continue to be a good friend and return the favor. You’re one of the most sincere people I’ve ever met.

]]> By: Laurie http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-2608 Laurie Fri, 11 Apr 2008 02:20:50 +0000 http://legallyheidi.wordpress.com/?p=515#comment-2608 This is right on - friendships can change (or end). I have a few "friends" who I really adore but I feel just don't want to grow up. Heck - I don't either, but it's about taking responsibility for actions! A real thinker here... This is right on – friendships can change (or end). I have a few “friends” who I really adore but I feel just don’t want to grow up. Heck – I don’t either, but it’s about taking responsibility for actions!

A real thinker here…

]]> By: fanfrickingtastic http://www.legallyheidi.com/2008/04/10/its-not-youoh-waityes-it-is/comment-page-1/#comment-2607 fanfrickingtastic Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:03:47 +0000 http://legallyheidi.wordpress.com/?p=515#comment-2607 Love this post. My entire life I was terrible at letting go. As a teenager, I would weigh the loss of throwing away some childhood toy so heavily that eventually I ended up with an entire attic full of "memories." I kind of adopted this method with friends as well. I didn't necessarily want them out and about in my room, but I didn't want them to be lost to me forever. Somewhere around 24ish, things totally lost their appeal to me. If I hadn't touched them in a couple of months, then I didn't want to own them...no matter what they were - bye, bye army of Cabbage Patch Kids. Sadly, people have "emotions" and they get all up in your face when you try to throw them in the trash. The injustices in life never end. Love this post. My entire life I was terrible at letting go. As a teenager, I would weigh the loss of throwing away some childhood toy so heavily that eventually I ended up with an entire attic full of “memories.” I kind of adopted this method with friends as well. I didn’t necessarily want them out and about in my room, but I didn’t want them to be lost to me forever. Somewhere around 24ish, things totally lost their appeal to me. If I hadn’t touched them in a couple of months, then I didn’t want to own them…no matter what they were – bye, bye army of Cabbage Patch Kids.

Sadly, people have “emotions” and they get all up in your face when you try to throw them in the trash. The injustices in life never end.

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